The Table Retreats
What We Do

Healthy ministries require healthy ministers, and healthy ministers require healthy marriages. The Table Retreats exists to support ministry couples by providing a safe space to reconnect with God and with one another in community with other couples who understand and share similar challenges. Through a Sabbath experience in a beautiful setting, husbands and wives enjoy a combination of structured and free-ranging conversations that stoke the life in marriages. Come join us as a couple, or bring a group, and rediscover the joy that first drew you into ministry and marriage.
Located just outside of Sunriver, Oregon, each retreat takes place at our spacious 8-bedroom house set alongside the Spring River and surrounded by quiet woodland paths. Over 3 nights and 4 days, couples enjoy great food and even better conversations among other ministry couples. These table interactions foster healthy laughter and healing tears as they create friendships among couples who so often feel alone in their ministry settings.
The $600 cost per couple is about 1/2 of the actual cost, with generous donations from partners covering the rest of our expenses. If you would like to donate toward expenses or for scholarships, click the button above.
Our Beautiful Setting
What a Retreat Looks Like
A typical retreat begins on Thursday afternoon as a handful of ministry couples arrive at our site. Each settles in to their suite, a well-appointed room with its own full bathroom. Then comes the first of eight meals, a delicious family-style dinner (please let us know if you have any food-related concerns), during which each person shares a word that describes the past year and why it was chosen. This launches the sharing and camaraderie which will be the backbone of the rest of the time together.
The program that follows from there is intentionally light, with a handful of interactive group sessions designed to help guests remember and reengage with the joy of Jesus in our marriages and ministries. There is content and purpose to it, but the goal here isn't to learn new ideas. The goal is to have meaningful conversations among trustworthy friends that will provide the hope and healing needed to continue participating with our Lord in his work in the world.
We build in time for conversations with other couples and also for each couple to have their own conversations in a leisurely setting. If that means walks in the woods and along the river or simply piecing a puzzle together in the living room, we believe the Spirit will accomplish what needs to be accomplished by his powerful presence and your openness.
The Table Retreats Team
Two couples with a long friendship and history in ministry are the core of The Table Retreats. Both couples have experienced the challenges ministry places on marriage and have a passion for encouraging and supporting pastors, missionaries, and other Christian leaders. All four studied together at Regent College (Vancouver, B.C.) receiving various Masters degrees, raising children, and cheering each other on as the years have passed.
Supporting Ministry Teams & Covenant Groups



Upcoming Events
- Thu, Oct 09SunriverThis retreat is exclusively reserved for a pastors and spouses covenant group
- Thu, Oct 30SunriverOpen retreat for couples in ministry. Fall is gorgeous in at this time of year. Come join us for the weekend.
- Thu, Nov 13SunriverThis retreat is open to all married couples where at least one spouse is involved in some form of vocational Christian ministry.
DOWNLOADS
Brochures & other handouts
BASIC BROCHURE
This simple, two-sided brochure concisely describes who we are, what we do, how much a retreat costs, and other key info. Perfect for sharing with your elders or covenant group when seeking their blessing on booking a retreat with us.
LETTER TO CHURCH LEADERS
It can be awkward to ask the leaders of your congregation to give you extra time off for a getaway with your spouse — and to pay for it! So we have written a letter that you can share with your church's leadership where we make that appeal for you.
Want to see a sample schedule for one of our weekends? Most weekends follow the same basic format in the download to the right.